Hey, to anybody who is pretty good with relationships, I haven't had a date in nearly 4 years. WHAT THE HECK AM I DOING WRONG? There was this one guy that I thought that I was going to start seeing, but I think I scared him away. He hung out at my room one night (no, nothing happened), and then we went canoeing. He hasn't called me since, and I just called him tonight because I didn't know his last name and I wanted to put his number in my address book (Yeah, good reason to call him.) He asked me how band went, and after I answered I asked him how he thought his classes were and he seemed like he liked his classes and he asked me about mine, and I mentioned how mine seemed to be going well and that I thought philosophy might be fun (the teacher really seems to have a lot of respect), then he mentioned how it's all about respect until you turn in the paper, then I made a crack about how the teacher is from a different country (I'm guessing, from his heavy accent) and probably isn't quite as disrespectful as a lot of Americans. Then he said he had to go. He didn't invite me to go anywhere or anything, and we said bye and we hung up. Am I jumping the gun here in thinking that I probably don't have a chance with him, or that he's thinking of someone else? He did ask me what I was doing right now, and I just told him hangin' out in my room not doing much (Kind of like an open invitation if he wanted to do anything - and he didn't say anything!) He did end up paying for the canoe thingy, and driving there, I offered to put money towards it, but he said I didn't have to, that I could pick it up the next time. Thanks, sorry for my griping.