My wife of 44 years is rather adamant to not hear me whistle, tap my fingers with or without music ... even my feet unless I'm dancing (which I can't do like I did anymore), and not to hear me practice my horns ... over and over until I get the piece to my satisfaction and that's why I use a YSB or practice when she's not here, but she enjoys and shares with others my final music. Too, she allows me to use the kitchen sink to clean horns as long as I clean and disinfect the sink afterward ... I'm not a slob. Too, she lets me go to concerts, but will not accompany me. Also, as soon as our income taxes are paid (if we owe anything), I can go on my quest to purchase my 2nd NEW trumpet and a NEW flugelhorn, the latter as I've never prior owned or played, but I first must understand they are my Valentines, Birthday, and Christmas presents all combined this year. Well, now you know how we've been married this long.