Thanks for the clarification - I have gone back and read letters to people I have written (and for some reason never got mailed) and I really miss the bright-eyed, passionate, idealistic person that I was when I was 19-20 years old and had my whole life ahead of me, beholden to no one, and with very few responsibilities. You are right about how everything needs to be considered. Did I take my eye off the goal? Yeah, maybe, but truthfully, while I'm not as involved in music as I would like to be, I can't imagine my life had I not taken the path that I have and made some of the choices I have made. What if I had chosen to not get married because of its possible detriment to my music career? Sure, I might be doing something more with music, but my life would be far less rich without my children, and you really can't put a price on that. This has been a very interesting discussion.