I was much older than chet fan when I set in stone my own personnal rules about writing anything negative. 1. Never use bad language. 2. Never use sexually suggestive or raceist content. 3. Don't respond when you are angry. 4. If you have to respond when you are angry, let somone critique it and listen what they say before you send it. 5. Don't write anything negative if you are tired or haven't had enough sleep. Writing when I haven't had enough sleep is the one that woke me up. Never again.