Started playing again after a 30 year break 4 years ago. Decided I liked jazz and found some music and learned as I went. Found some like minded people and joined a club where I play (usually every month). Timing was an issue (I put a thread on here about it!) so decided to join a brass band to improve discipline and sight reading. So I now play on the back row on 3rd cornet and sometimes 2nd. band playing coming on well, timing issues and sight reading very much improved. In fact our band (menai bridge brass band) came 2nd in the welsh championships recently. So all well and good.... but in my jazz world, I am told by my friends that I am sticking too tightly to the notes and need to let it swing more.... In my band world.... not allowed to swing it.... need to be a slave to the dots and dynamics etc.... you see my problem? my 3rd world is playing in church where I do what I want Anyone else have such conflicts of playing styles etc and how did you deal with it?