yes trickg, I think that was my point. No doubt there are many people that have the X factor - unfortunately I don't appear to be one of those. I will say this though. When I was in High School -there were a couple of people who had that X factor. I mean there was this 1 trumpet player, and 1 drummer -- who really "just got it" -- and I am certain they could have been a pros. A few years later I bumped into each of them -- they had quit playing their instruments. NOT because of "frustration" that so many of us feel from time to time -- BUT because they were bored - the instrument was too easy for them, they didn't enjoy it -- or whatever --- but they lacked heart (they lacked the H factor) to continue to expand on the gift that God had given them.