| Lara,
Tell the band director exactly what you told us. Then explain your decision is to support the first commitment.
You are an honors band player -- the director cannot stay mad at you for long.
I believe the band director will understand -- it may take some time. But whatever you do, don't get too worked up over it. You were caught in a tough place and made a decision using important principles. If every teenager did that, there would be few problems at any high school.
Jim |