| This could turn into a fascinating discussion about rites of passage and the value given to those various rites.
I have given my 15 year-old son tastes of wines that I've had just so that he has an idea of how strong the taste is and I've done the same with the occasional beer I have in front of him. We have had discussions about enjoying alcohol and about drunkenness. We've talked about the stupidity of getting so drunk you have the pleasure of throwing up until you feel like your insides are going to turn inside out. We've talked about the distinct flavors that certain alcoholic beverages will have. I've also told him that he's never seen his father drunk not will he ever.
It's about honesty when it comes to talking with young people. They can smell baloney a mile away.
Having said that, I have to say that I read with delight about the friend that saved up to age 21 to have his first drink. It sounded like he'll remember that for the rest of his life. I had my first drink at age 19. It was a simple can of beer but I enjoyed it and still remember it.
Rites of passage are good, I think. They are like milestones and I think there's nothing wrong with waiting for those milestones, eagerly looking forward to them, and enjoying them when they happen. It teaches you the value of patience. Too much is assigned the "What's the big deal?" status these days. Nothing is special anymore. Nothing is worth waiting for. What a shame. Oh, yeah... the season finale to your favorite show. But if you miss it, you can record it or TVO it, and watch it over and over whenever you wish. No need to wait for a time of year to see a special event. Rent or buy the video of it.
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