| Isn't the feeling that you've really affected the life of someone in such a positive way great?
It is good to be on the receiving end as well- even if its not a teacher. When you're peers turn to you after you nail a difficult spot and tell you what a great job you did, especially if you were apprehensive about the (whatever it is), it can really just help you feel great.
What can be frustrating is when is when someone compliments you and you think you really screwed it up- makes you wonder if they're just saying it or if they really mean it.
If all band directors did that kind of positive reinforcement, I bet there would be a lot more professional musicians.
But students- return the favor! When your director (or instructor) goes out of his way or does something special, thank them! I always make a point to thank my favorite teachers- band or otherwise- for such a great year when it is one, or when they do something for me. |