ASD...
I agree with you.. That's why I said, "you had to be able to play"... which mirrors your statement of having to "prove" yourself. Right on. In many ways...it is the same as days gone by in that respect. Just not as many (perceived or otherwise) opportunities to do so - thus the statement about making your own way.
As for the Lexus analogy... we are on the same page there as well. Status for some... true benefit for others. That's also why I always say - some folks can play great with a horn that looks like it came off the wall of a restaurant... (my present horn certainly would qualify... dare I say it? ...yes..a Bach Strad ...
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At least there are some interesting choices for those who are interested.