If my memory serves me now, I can only recall 3 times I dealt with a wedding planner. Too, I'd estimate I wore a tux at only about 50% of all the weddings I played solos for the ceremony, 2 or 3 in which I wore a choir robe and the rest just grey to black suits. I do have two black tuxes and a white dinner jacket of my own that still fit, even though I had to get new trousers for one.
The truth now is ... I won't be playing at any more weddings.