Just did another wedding a couple weeks ago at a large room at a country club. The rhythm section was mic'd and playing rather loud. The sax player and I were doing well at keeping our un-mic'd sound in check and under the volume of the rhythm section to maintain our chops for the evening. Then this lady comes over to me, and says I am playing too loud. I asked her, you sure you have the right instrument as I have been playing under the amplified rhythm section all night. She said, no it was pretty my me playing too loud. I then asked her: "Does your husband play the trumpet?" She said yes. I then said: "Lady, that explains a lot. Your issues are more with your husband, and less with me". She walked away pissed. Didn't get groped that night.