I've known people who put music, gigging and their drive to be working musicians, ahead of everything else. While they mostly succeeded with their endeavors musically, their personal lives were a mess.
I might have gone further with it if I hadn't had a family, but I did have a family and was never willing to really put that on the line in my efforts to be a musician. There had to be a balance and I just wasn't willing to wreck my marriage or my kids' childhood.
And what is "success" anyway when it comes to playing trumpet? How much is enough?