We are all mirrors for each other

Alex Yates · 02-03-2006, 12:48 PM

Daily OM

February 3, 2006
Reflections Of Self
We Are All Mirrors For Each Other

When we look at other people, we see many of their qualities in innumerable and seemingly random combinations. However, the qualities that we see in the people around us are directly related to the traits that exist in us. "Like attracts like" is one of the spiritual laws of the universe. We attract individuals into our lives that mirror who we are. Those you feel drawn to reflect your inner self back at you, and you act as a mirror for them. Simply put, when you look at others, you will likely see what exists in you. When you see beauty, divinity, sweetness, or light in the soul of another, you are seeing the goodness that resides in your soul. When you see traits in others that evoke feelings of anger, annoyance, or hatred, you may be seeing reflected back at you those parts of yourself that you have disowned or do not like.

Because we are all mirrors for each other, looking at the people in your life can tell you a lot about yourself. Who you are can be laid bare to you through what you see in others. It is easy to see the traits you do not like in others. It is much more difficult to realize that you possess those same traits. Often, the habits, attitudes, and behaviors of others are closely linked to our unconscious and unresolved issues.

When you come into contact with someone you admire, search your soul for similarly admirable traits. Likewise, when you meet someone exhibiting traits that you dislike, accept that you are looking at your reflection. Looking at yourself through your perception of others can be a humbling and eye-opening experience. You can also cultivate in you the traits and behaviors that you do like. Be loving and respectful to all people, and you will attract individuals that will love and respect you back. Nurture compassion and empathy and let the goodness you see in others be your mirror.

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Dave Mickley · 02-03-2006, 02:33 PM

trompetvrouw-you are way to deep to be a trumpet player [just kidding]
Dave

gregc · 02-03-2006, 03:15 PM

I'm gonna think about this for a good while. I suspect there's more to it than what I'm gleaming off the surface~
Thanks for reprinting that, and hooking us up with the link.

Tootsall · 02-03-2006, 03:48 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Trompetvrouw

"Like attracts like" is one of the spiritual laws of the universe.

Unless you happen to be a magnet!

Great post though.

Alex Yates · 02-03-2006, 04:00 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dave Mickley

trompetvrouw-you are way to deep to be a trumpet player [just kidding]
Dave

LOL! If I had a dime for every time I have heard that! LOL!

Alex Yates · 02-03-2006, 11:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by gregc

I'm gonna think about this for a good while. I suspect there's more to it than what I'm gleaming off the surface~
Thanks for reprinting that, and hooking us up with the link.

You know Greg, if you put it in terms of trumpet playing and how we choose our sound, our style and our methods, it could easily apply......dontcha think?

This article was a nice reminder to "check in and see what condition my condition was in......."

gregc · 02-04-2006, 11:33 AM

Yea Alex....... I think it applies to EVERYTHING! Then again, I always thought everything one is exposed to has an effect in some fashon, especially people.

Dave Mickley · 02-04-2006, 02:31 PM

if I had a dime for every time I said something "deep" I would be bankrupt. Dave

larry newman · 02-05-2006, 04:18 AM

Namaste...

Solar Bell · 02-05-2006, 09:32 AM

Mirrors of each other.
I agree with Alex 100%
We also eschew people for that same reason.
We in fact are all mirrors of all of us.
When I look at a person who does things that I would not do, I see that I could be doing those same things but for the choices I have made. Being brought up differently from another means that I have chosen or been taught along a different line. When see a promiscuous person, I am aware that except for my being not allowed to be with certain groups of people growing up, I could have been in that same crowd and would have been the same way.

That is one reason we get “sucked in” to arguments that we normally might avoid. ( like on the TM) We start to argue back and forth with a person or a view that we disagree with. We end up saying things that we feel bad for. We say “I got sucked into that one”. We were really just mirroring a side that we generally keep under control, but make no mistake…it IS there.
Whether “showing off”, or “putting someone in his place”, we are usually mirroring the behavior of that person

A guy sits in with our band. He starts “capping” the end of every tune, on the 2nd book. I always play what’s written on the lead part. I finally have enough and when he plays an E above my C on the end of the tune, I go up to the G. I have left my normal behavior and mirrored his, justifying it by saying “That will show him.” In reality I have just shown myself that I am also a mirror of him and I have to be careful to keep guard over the things in my life which are unacceptable to me. They are always there, it’s a matter of what is acceptable or not in your life.

Great post Alex!

-cw-

02-03-2006, 12:48 PM	#1 (permalink)
Alex Yates Forte User Join Date: Aug 2005 Location: Atlanta, GA Posts: 2,405	We are all mirrors for each other Daily OM February 3, 2006 Reflections Of Self We Are All Mirrors For Each Other When we look at other people, we see many of their qualities in innumerable and seemingly random combinations. However, the qualities that we see in the people around us are directly related to the traits that exist in us. "Like attracts like" is one of the spiritual laws of the universe. We attract individuals into our lives that mirror who we are. Those you feel drawn to reflect your inner self back at you, and you act as a mirror for them. Simply put, when you look at others, you will likely see what exists in you. When you see beauty, divinity, sweetness, or light in the soul of another, you are seeing the goodness that resides in your soul. When you see traits in others that evoke feelings of anger, annoyance, or hatred, you may be seeing reflected back at you those parts of yourself that you have disowned or do not like. Because we are all mirrors for each other, looking at the people in your life can tell you a lot about yourself. Who you are can be laid bare to you through what you see in others. It is easy to see the traits you do not like in others. It is much more difficult to realize that you possess those same traits. Often, the habits, attitudes, and behaviors of others are closely linked to our unconscious and unresolved issues. When you come into contact with someone you admire, search your soul for similarly admirable traits. Likewise, when you meet someone exhibiting traits that you dislike, accept that you are looking at your reflection. Looking at yourself through your perception of others can be a humbling and eye-opening experience. You can also cultivate in you the traits and behaviors that you do like. Be loving and respectful to all people, and you will attract individuals that will love and respect you back. Nurture compassion and empathy and let the goodness you see in others be your mirror. For more information visit http://www.dailyom.com

02-03-2006, 02:33 PM	#2 (permalink)
Dave Mickley Piano User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 408	trompetvrouw-you are way to deep to be a trumpet player [just kidding] Dave __________________ formerly known as old geezer Dave C7 Yam. 231 Fl. 15383 King Master Cornet 295628 Weril Cornet Lo 7535

02-03-2006, 03:15 PM	#3 (permalink)
gregc Mezzo Piano User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: New York, U.S. of A. Posts: 548	I'm gonna think about this for a good while. I suspect there's more to it than what I'm gleaming off the surface~ Thanks for reprinting that, and hooking us up with the link. __________________ ______________ Greg Condemi

02-04-2006, 11:33 AM	#7 (permalink)
gregc Mezzo Piano User Join Date: Apr 2004 Location: New York, U.S. of A. Posts: 548	Yea Alex....... I think it applies to EVERYTHING! Then again, I always thought everything one is exposed to has an effect in some fashon, especially people. __________________ ______________ Greg Condemi

02-04-2006, 02:31 PM	#8 (permalink)
Dave Mickley Piano User Join Date: Nov 2005 Location: Indianapolis Posts: 408	if I had a dime for every time I said something "deep" I would be bankrupt. Dave __________________ formerly known as old geezer Dave C7 Yam. 231 Fl. 15383 King Master Cornet 295628 Weril Cornet Lo 7535

02-05-2006, 04:18 AM	#9 (permalink)
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02-05-2006, 09:32 AM	#10 (permalink)
Solar Bell Moderator Fortissimo User Join Date: May 2005 Location: Metro Detroit Posts: 4,273	Mirrors of each other. I agree with Alex 100% We also eschew people for that same reason. We in fact are all mirrors of all of us. When I look at a person who does things that I would not do, I see that I could be doing those same things but for the choices I have made. Being brought up differently from another means that I have chosen or been taught along a different line. When see a promiscuous person, I am aware that except for my being not allowed to be with certain groups of people growing up, I could have been in that same crowd and would have been the same way. That is one reason we get “sucked in” to arguments that we normally might avoid. ( like on the TM) We start to argue back and forth with a person or a view that we disagree with. We end up saying things that we feel bad for. We say “I got sucked into that one”. We were really just mirroring a side that we generally keep under control, but make no mistake…it IS there. Whether “showing off”, or “putting someone in his place”, we are usually mirroring the behavior of that person A guy sits in with our band. He starts “capping” the end of every tune, on the 2nd book. I always play what’s written on the lead part. I finally have enough and when he plays an E above my C on the end of the tune, I go up to the G. I have left my normal behavior and mirrored his, justifying it by saying “That will show him.” In reality I have just shown myself that I am also a mirror of him and I have to be careful to keep guard over the things in my life which are unacceptable to me. They are always there, it’s a matter of what is acceptable or not in your life. Great post Alex! -cw- __________________ Chuck Willard *The Willard of Oz* "Don't be afraid to see what you see." Ronald Reagan

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